Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Reconciliation?


How could these two people ever be friends?


Person A
Person 1
Female
Female
Liberal, Gay Marriage, Social Justice Christian
Fundamentalist Christian
Democrat
Republican
NPR listener
Fox News watcher
PC computer user
Apple computer person
Flexible planner
Routine maker
Home is functional but never spotless
House is spotless at all times
Multiple pet owner
Dislikes pets – they are messy
Rarely wears makeup
Always wears makeup
Occasionally gets manicures
Nails always done
Thinks some tattoos are tasteful
Thinks all tattoos are shameful
Loves Person @
Loves Person @

And that last line is the problem. Person @ is in the middle of these two people, with loyalties torn. If it weren't for Person @, Person A and Person 1 would never need to have anything to do with one another. 

Any ideas?

Friday, February 27, 2009

More from the Road

[[Written on the train into the city]]

I got off the plane & of course needed to make a pitstop and also to put on more clothes, since it's about 50 degrees colder here than in Austin!

I was trying to decide whether I needed a sweater AND my coat, or just my coat, so I asked the lady that was cleaning the bathroom. She smiled and said, "You say slowly, please, I have very little English" so I did and we had a very pleasant conversation, concluding that my coat was sufficient. I said, "Thank you!" and she said, "You're welcome!" and then got very excited that that had just popped out so easily! I told her she did very well, and off I went, in my coat.

Okay, people look at me in airports. I'm not sure why. Today I thought it might be my clothing... If you know me at all you know that I rail against the idea that winter clothes should be dark and drab. What I'm wearing is a direct outcome of that distaste: purple corduroy pants, a pink oxford shirt, and a bright pistachio green parka. I love it, but I suppose it does stand out! But really, people look at me anyway, I think, even when I'm wearing my travel "uniform" of black skirt & top from Chico's.

I love to travel. I LOVE airports. Love them. Always have. And I especially love coming to Chicago. I know my way around just a bit, and I absolutely *adore* that I can get off the airplane and get on a train, which takes me into the city for $2.25. This is the way things are supposed to be!

Also I just love walking through airports. I love watching all the different types of people go by. I wonder at this incredible, complicated system that takes people all around the world. I'm amazed by all the places you can go, just strolling down the concourse.

Sometimes Husband and I will be waiting for a flight somewhere, and we'll see that the plane at the next gate is headed somewhere else, and we'll joke about getting on that one instead... One of these days we're going to do just that!

What I also love about travel and airports, is that for me it is always a happy occasion. Either I'm going someplace fun, with Husband or meeting him or meeting friends, or I'm going home from someplace fun or seeing people I love. And both sides of that coin are wonderful! Going is wonderful, and Home is wonderful!

So when I walk through airports, especially if I've just gotten off the plane, I tend to be grinning like an idiot, looking around, and making eye contact with people. So perhaps this is the reason I feel that they are looking at me, because I am looking at them. Who knows? And I'm happy and content, so I don't care if they are wondering what's up with the gal with the goofy grin!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Serendipity!

Scene One: Saturday before last, I was walking in Lick Creek with my Giant Puppy, Suki, and my friend Laurie and her smaller, but very solid dog Smorfi. Suki and Smorfi had hung back to sniff something as Laurie and I continued down the path, and then came running full tilt to pass us. Only, Giant Puppy is still a bit clumsy, and ran all 110 pounds of herself, at a full run, smack into the backs of my knees. She kept going, but I lost my balance, twisted sideways, and fell onto my butt on the side of the path. I was fine, but I had twisted my ankle a bit in going down. It swelled up that night, was sore but better the next day. Over the next week and a half, every once in a while I'd do something that would remind me that I'd twisted my ankle.

Scene Two: A week or so ago, I thought of an old friend that I used to hang out with when I was finishing my first undergraduate degree at Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, Texas. This would have been 1988-89. I could not remember her name, but I wondered what had ever happened to her.

Scene Three: Yesterday, Husband and I were enjoying the lovely weather with a little break at Starbuck's, sitting outside. The dry spell had broken, we'd had some rain, and now it was clear and pleasant temperature. Between the weather change and my wearing boots I had not worn in a couple of weeks, my ankle was talking to me again. I mentioned this, and he said, well, let's go get it looked at and make sure it doesn't have a stress fracture or anything. He called our primary doc, whose voicemail told us he was out of the office attending to an emergency. I called my chiropractor, who can xray and treat the ankle, but was unsure if my insurance would cover it. So we decided that the most expedient way to get it looked at, and paid for by insurance, was to go to the Emergency Room. We'd had a really good experience with The Daughter at the newest hospital in our area, The Physician's Centre, which is also doctor-owned. It's a bit off the beaten path, and is quite small, so we figured their ER would be the best choice, and the least busy. We finished our errands, went home and had a bite to eat, ran another errand, and headed to the PC's ER.

Scene Four: The attending nurse buzzed us into the tiny ER, took one look at me and said, "You look very very familiar to me. [pause] Sam Houston. And Houston." and I took one look at her and said, "Oh my God. Laura. Laura Peacock!" This was the very friend from SHSU I'd been thinking of a week or so ago. Turns out she's been an RN for 11 years and has lived in the area for 17 years, and somehow we had *never* run into each other!

I told her I'd thought of her just a week or so ago, couldn't think of her name, but as soon as I looked at her the name came to me.

She told me that a week or so ago, she was going through some stuff and found a book I'd given her when she got her first puppy, a black lab named Hassan. I'd inscribed the book, so she looked at it and thought, "Huh. I wonder what ever happened to Gigi?"

And I said, "Well, that must have been why I was thinking of you, because you found that book and thought of me!"

How's THAT for serendipity!?!

Oh, my ankle? It's fine. The xrays didn't show any fractures, the range of motion is good, the pain is minimal. The doc said there is a little ligament that runs from *here* to *here* (the exact two spots that hurt) and it is the most commonly torn or pulled thing when people twist their ankles. So he told me to take ibuprofen and gave me an aircast to compress it, and told me to stay off it for three days, no long dog walks or whatnot. And still hurting after a week and a half is normal, strains take 4-6 weeks to completely heal. So no worries!